Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Atrocity!

It's time to link up to Jenny Matlock's Alphabe-Thursday. We're starting the alphabet all over again, so the letter this week is "A." A is for atrocity!

My daughter takes different enrichment classes everyday after school. They're really fantastic! One class is on animals, another is on creating television commercials, another is a martial arts class. She also takes a magic class and flute lessons! These classes are part of her school's after-school enrichment program.

One day, when I was picking her up  from her animal class, the teacher was giving the kids mealworms to take home. They were supposed to use them to feed to the lizards, but my daughter and the other kids wanted to save their lives. Each child received two mealworms. I didn't like the thought of keeping worms in the house, but my daughter was excited by it. She's been dying to have a pet. Unfortunately, both she and my husband have allergies to dogs and cats. We bought her a fish, but she still wants an interactive pet.

Anyway, she immediately named her "pets" Mealie and Wormie. We put them in a large butterfly cage and gave them oats to crawl in and eat. We also put carrots in as they use the carrots for their hydration. My daughter loves watching them crawl around and eat. We did some research on them and discovered that they're more related to caterpillars than to worms. They metamorphosize into beetles that can bite. Because of this, my daughter agreed that we would release them once they turn into beetles.

The next week at her animal class, she found out the teacher that gave the mealworms out was actually a substitute teacher that wasn't supposed to do this. The regular teacher was pretty irate that she had done this. The other students all talked about how their mealworms died. For example, one gave his mealworm water to drink, causing the mealworm to drown. My daughter was the only student who still had two mealworms that were alive and thriving.

We later found out from the teacher that we are not supposed to release the mealworms or the beetles they turn into because they are not native to the area. By releasing them, we could potentially destroy the whole ecosystem of the area! This was the real reason the teacher was angry about the sub handing out the mealworms to the kids. So, he told my daughter that once her pets turn into beetles, we would have to kill them.

This made my daughter cry.

As much as I hate the mealworms, the thought of killing them upset me as well. I told my daughter, that we would just have to keep the beetles then. She reminded me that they might be different genders, then we'd end up with a much bigger problem.

Oh damn. That's right!

I talked with the teacher last week and asked him if he'd take the mealworms back. In front of my daughter he said, "Oh sure! We could feed them to our lizards!" I explained that my daughter didn't want her pets fed to lizards. He responded that we could keep them until they turned to beetles, then kill them. He definitely was not getting the situation. I asked him if there were any mealworm farms in the area that he could send the mealworms to. He said they they did have their own mealworm farms. I then made it clear that's where we wanted our mealworms to go to.

I hope he remembers about send the mealworms to the "farm" when we return them. 

Ugh. The atrocity!

12 comments:

  1. Nature will probably take care of your problem for you...we also had many "pets" that ended up in boxes under 10 inches of dirt with a short ceremony...lizards, frogs, salamanders, all named and dearly loved. We also released quite a few back to nature. Sounds like you have wonderful resources, so I hope they do make it to the "farm"♫♪

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  2. It is certainly disheartening that the teacher had so little imagination and caring. My youngest son's first grade teacher was like that. She only lasted one school year, and then found a job in a bank. Good move, I think.

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  3. I recommend silkworms. We had them as pets when we were little. You can buy them on the web.

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  4. Never knew that mealworms turned into biting beetles!
    Sheesh!

    Hope you end up with a good solution to this problem with the non-native insects.

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  5. ugh...sounds hideous to me.... what a good mom you are and what a sweet daughter you have!

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  6. Aw, your poor daughter! Could you not keep the eventual beetles in separate cages, avoiding the population explosion problem? Wikipedia suggests you'd have the beetles for about 3 months max ... (Amazing what kids get attached to - my brother had a pet leech when I was little!)

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  7. Oh, I can't believe she wanted to keep mealworms for pets! Around here we would feed those to the chickens, and they would be VERY happy. You are a good mom!

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  8. Dear Cheryl,
    There is no doubt that you are a GOOD mother. All mothers will do what ever it takes to protect their children. It is a natural human instinct for a mother to love this way. Interesting post my friend. Thanks for sharing..

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  9. I raised mealworms for the geckos in my classroom. We watched the worms turn into beetles and then produce more mealworms. If your daughter wants to keep her worms I am sure that she could sell the babies to other classrooms so they can raise mealworms and watch the process. The way I explain to my pre-k students about why we have to feed our geckos mealworms is because God made plant eaters and meat eaters and meat eaters cannot go to the store to buy meat, they do not even have money so we have to take care of them. I understand your position, my 30 yr old daughter became a vegetarian at age 11 because she could eat nothing with a face. Have a great weekend, didn't mean to ramble.

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  10. Mealworms make me gag. Actually any maggot like thing does. I can handle earth worms as they are the little tillers of the soil, but not thos maggot things. Yuck. That being said, Teacher dear should not send home little 'pets' without major permission from moms/dads!
    And, finally, if you have allergies to dogs have you ever considered a poodle? They have hair, not fur, therefore the allergic factor is almost non existant.

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  11. I fed mealworms to my turtle for a while. Once I bought so many that I didn't use them all up before some of them turned into beetles. It was quite a shock when I opened the container :-). So kind of you to honor your daughter's tender heart. I hope you'll have wisdom and lots of luck finding your worms/beetles a safe harbor.

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  12. This sounds like many a scenario at our house when our kids were small!

    We had a lot of 'rescued' bugs and animals...

    The meal worms are kind of yucky, but I love the names your daughter thought up.

    This post was really, really adorable.

    Give Mealie and Wormie a hug for me!

    A+

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